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de Grey Family at The Friars 

Top of page and first picture: Baron Richard de Grey in a painting by Adam Kossowski (The return of the Carmelites to Aylesford) Second picture: Distinctive stones marked with the cross excavated at Codnor Castle.  Picture at bottom of page: Painting of the Mediaeval Church on the grounds of The Friars

When it became unsafe for the hermits to remain in Palestine, they travelled to Europe with returning crusaders.  A small group of hermits arrived at Aylesford in 1242 where Baron Richard de Grey gave them his manor.   This was one of their first foundations in England. 

 
 Extract from our quarterly newsletter by Fr Francis Kemsley O.Carm

I am fortunate to regularly receive many letters and one recently stood out as it came from the Secretary of the Codnor Castle Heritage Trust, Derbyshire. Codnor Castle is the ancestral home of the de Grey family who were the benefactors of the Carmelites here at Aylesford. The letter informed me that in recent excavations of the castle’s chapel, some distinctive stones marked with the cross were discovered.

As well as giving his manor at Aylesford, Baron Richard de Grey, also gave land to the Carmelites, near Fleet Street, for their London House. Part of the crypt can still be seen if you venture around Carmelite and Whitefriars Streets which are just off Fleet Street. The de Grey family were also benefactors to the Carmelites in Nottingham. Baron Richard de Grey was a returning crusader who came from a powerful family. His uncle was Walter de Grey, one of the longest serving Archbishops of York. He was present at the signing of the Magna Carta, in 1215. His impressive tomb can still be seen in York Minster. Baron Richard de Grey and several generations of his family were interred in the crypt of the Choir Chapel, in the original mediaeval church, dedicated to the Assumption of Our Lady. During the excavations of the 1950s their bones were discovered and were reinterred in 1958. The grave is marked by a simple cross in the piazza. The most famous descendent of the de Greys was Lady Jane Grey, the sixteenth century nine-day Queen.

 
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